As an entrepreneur, I’ve been fortunate to have the time and flexibility to care for my parents during their recent health challenges. But let me tell you, this path isn’t always easy. It takes more than just managing time—it requires deep belief in myself and my mission to push through the pressures. What keeps me going is my commitment to creating an environment where I can continue to learn and grow.
While self-help might seem like common sense to some, for others, it’s as essential as air. We’re all unique, and we all long to live authentically. For me, curiosity has always been the driving force behind my growth. I devour books, podcasts, and even dive into understanding our country’s political landscape. I may not agree with everything I come across, but every new perspective is valuable. Each one helps me expand my knowledge and strengthen my sense of self.
One of the most important things I’ve learned is how vital it is for parents to lift their eyes from their phones and TV screens and spend quality time explaining what’s happening in the world to their kids. This summer, at youth camps, I heard several kids mention how their dads never seem to look away from their phones. It struck me just how much kids notice—and how much they crave that connection with their parents.
In today’s world, being present is more important than ever. Kids need guidance in processing the complex information they see around them—and they need that from us, not just what they pick up in school or from the media. We have a responsibility to help them understand the world, but more importantly, to teach them how to think for themselves.
I recently came across a statement by Dr. Casey Means that resonated deeply with me: “There’s no greater thing we can do than to have children, do our best to make them healthy, and teach them to think for themselves.” Whether or not you have kids, it’s vital to instill critical thinking in the younger generations. Curiosity can lead to connection, and by fostering thoughtful debate, we give them the tools to navigate life with confidence.
On my own journey of self-discovery, I’ve realized the importance of communicating with confidence. But that wasn’t always the case. After going through a divorce and watching my kids struggle with the effects of a broken home, I felt lost. In trying to help them, I had to first help myself. I had to “put on my fins,” so to speak, and recognize how much I still had to learn.
Stay tuned for Part 2, where I’ll share some powerful tools I’ve picked up recently that can help you communicate with more confidence—even in the face of conflict. Let’s continue this journey together.
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